方言(岩)
发表于 2023-10-29 20:01:22
【天方明语】方言荐读
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p><strong>无言花自香 淡定人从容</strong></p><p> </p><p> 岁月催人老。行走在喧嚣纷繁的尘世,经历着潮起潮落的人生,岁月不仅把沧桑刻在了人的脸上,更是刻在了人的心里。</p><p> 走过“恰同学少年,风华正茂”的意气风发的少年时代,也走过“当今之世,舍我其谁”的激情燃烧的青春年华,不经意间,就走到了世事不惑感知天命的人生秋天。</p><p> 虽然做不到心如止水波澜不惊,但人却变得厚重沉稳了许多,情绪中少了躁动,多了宁静,神态中少了桀傲,多了平和,生活中少了幻想,多了现实,做人少了棱角,多了浑圆,性格少了张扬,多了内敛。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20231029195750front2_0_809888_FhpOSvPzsbUT0zUa94SAwxgrSgmS.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="920" height="973" data-qf-origin="forum/20231029195750front2_0_809888_FhpOSvPzsbUT0zUa94SAwxgrSgmS.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> ①、忽然间,就体会到了淡定才是人生的最佳境界。</p><p> 这种淡定是经历了磨难和沧桑后的大气和胸襟,也是走过了起落和坎坷后的镇定和从容。</p><p> 这种淡定是“天地有大美而不言”的无求和自足,是“淡泊以明志,宁静以致远”的超然与平和,是“回首向来萧瑟处,也无风雨也无晴”的豁达与超脱;是“采菊东篱下,悠然见南山”的随性与洒脱;是“行到水穷处,坐看云起时”的从容与禅意。</p><p> 它表现为一种态度,胜不骄,败不馁,不以成败论英雄,尽人力听天命,心安既足;它表现为一种风度,遇事放松自如,不温不躁,待人亲和有度,顺而有持。</p><p> 它表现为一种修养,仁厚宽宏,包容大度,心怀坦荡,平实内敛。不以物喜不以已悲;它表现为一种力量,面对外界的纷繁和喧嚣,气定神宁,坚持不懈,正所谓“千磨万击还坚韧,任尔东南西北风”。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20231029195822front2_0_809888_FlAwrW7BZA-Iag5j_xEBihaBqLmI.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="976" height="1032" data-qf-origin="forum/20231029195822front2_0_809888_FlAwrW7BZA-Iag5j_xEBihaBqLmI.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> ② 、淡定不是冷漠,它是冷眼观尽世间浮华,独守一份清静安宁。得意时不张狂,失意时不消沉。是在人生的历练中涵养出的淡定从容的定力;淡定也不是软弱,它是虚怀若谷胸容万壑的境界,是沉稳成熟和自信心的体现。</p><p> 正所谓“仁者不忧,智者不惑,勇者不惧”;淡定更不是愚钝,它是阅尽沧桑后的醒悟和了然于胸的坦然,是大智若愚难得糊涂的诠释。是以隔岸观火的姿态,看他人忙碌,看他人追逐,我且珍惜的一种大智慧。</p><p> 淡定是一种能力,淡定是一种积淀,淡定的人懂得过滤纷扰烦忧。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20231029195846front2_0_809888_FtPjlrvn5hun3HHTefTKFtwDXfWV.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="961" height="1004" data-qf-origin="forum/20231029195846front2_0_809888_FtPjlrvn5hun3HHTefTKFtwDXfWV.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> ③、常言道人生不如意事十之八九,换言之如意之事也就十之一二,而淡定的人会“常想一二,不思八九”,眼里多的是世间的风景和生活的美好。</p><p> 其实,人需要的并不多,虽不能比颜回“一箪食,一瓢水足矣”,但简简单单的生活才最有味道。</p><p> “仁者乐山山如画,智者乐水水无涯。从从容容一杯酒,平平淡淡一杯茶”。到最后,赤条条地来还要赤条条地走,一样东西也带不走。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20231029195911front2_0_809888_FikEsyQ8-5kv_e4GwpbS7_UZOgTV.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="937" height="1014" data-qf-origin="forum/20231029195911front2_0_809888_FikEsyQ8-5kv_e4GwpbS7_UZOgTV.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> ④、人来世上走一遭,很不容易,不要太为难自己。应该学会享受生活,不奢求不属于自己的东西,也不必强做自己力所不能之事。</p><p> 有些欲望可以淡化,有些争执可以让步,有些人可以疏远,有些东西可以不要,有些话可以不屑……</p><p> 该得到的,就用心用力去争取,不该得到的,看看,想想也就罢了,没必要费尽心机。得之我幸,不得我命。当然,淡定不是无所追求,不是消极处世刻意放纵,也不是自我封闭,孤芳自赏。</p><p> 淡定的人更在意的是内心的丰盈,无论闲忙,都要学习知识,不求琴棋书画样样精通,也不求学富五车满腹经纶,只求丰富自己的内涵,多点儒雅,少点市侩,学会建立一个丰富高贵的精神世界,让自己的生活多些诗意和温。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20231029195950front2_0_809888_FtGWvBwSzF2YfP9WvJ0yeKgNWvHS.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="967" height="1008" data-qf-origin="forum/20231029195950front2_0_809888_FtGWvBwSzF2YfP9WvJ0yeKgNWvHS.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> ⑤、花开无语,芳华烁烁;花落无言,余香阵阵。人生亦如这无言的花开花落,绽放凋零,一切都将在岁月中老去,重归于尘,重归于土。</p><p> 行走在这纷繁喧嚣的世间,虽然做不到看破红尘无悲无喜得失两忘,也要修炼一颗淡定从容的心,泰然面对日出日落,月缺月圆,活出自己的美好人生。 </p><p>2023.10.29晚 于义乌</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20231029200015front2_0_809888_FsdtmGJdzzjRjyAZ9OC92HvdbOnv.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="1844" height="881" data-qf-origin="forum/20231029200015front2_0_809888_FsdtmGJdzzjRjyAZ9OC92HvdbOnv.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> </p> <!----></div>
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