认识自己，摆托内耗…
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010502" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010502"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p> 精神内耗，说白了就是自己心里的戏太多了。言未出，结局已演千百遍；身未动，心中已过万重山；行未果，假象苦难愁不展；事已毕，过往仍在脑中演。</p><p> 所谓的耐心或好脾气很多时候就是适当降低期待，无论是对孩子还是爱人，都是如此。我们平时对孩子的责骂、对爱人的抱怨，归根结底都是在以自己过高的心理预期去衡量对方、要求对方，忽视了对方的能力和感受。 有趣的是，对越亲密的人，我们的期待往往越高，要求也越苛刻，因为我们总是希望他们更好，容不得一点错误。但是这种期待往往让我们变得不够幸福，经常被一点小事弄得鸡飞狗跳，导致不必要的情绪消耗和波动。特别是在婚姻生活中，一方的期待越高，其幸福感就越低，因为他/她总觉得对方应该对自己怎样怎样，如果对方不符合自己的预期，自己就会不开心。</p><p class=""> 这个浮躁的社会，我们唯一能做的，管好自己，静下心来多看书。</p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20240303171322front2_0_1044674_FnyzOKqqwj0oP7o2FhpXAZtiwcc8.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="720" height="904" data-qf-origin="forum/20240303171322front2_0_1044674_FnyzOKqqwj0oP7o2FhpXAZtiwcc8.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20240303171322front2_0_1044674_Fu1vJjA33AAgz4whm4QoGa4DRqvS.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="713" height="907" data-qf-origin="forum/20240303171322front2_0_1044674_Fu1vJjA33AAgz4whm4QoGa4DRqvS.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pics.app.cnyw.net/forum/20240303171340front2_0_1044674_FgtvNrMzkh-CGOJAZOon28NUWVVs.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="720" height="905" data-qf-origin="forum/20240303171340front2_0_1044674_FgtvNrMzkh-CGOJAZOon28NUWVVs.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cDovL3BpY3MuYXBwLmNueXcubmV0L18yMDE5MDQyNTA5MTYwMF81Y2MxMGE1MDc5ZjY2LnBuZw==/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> </p> <!----></div> 摆脱
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